“I Wouldn’t Have Married My Wife If She Were SS or AS” — Adekunle Gold Speaks on Genotype Compatibility

Nigerian singer Adekunle Gold has opened up about his experience living with sickle cell disease and the importance of genotype compatibility in marriage, saying he would not have married his wife if she had an incompatible genotype such as SS or AS.

The singer, who has publicly shared his journey with sickle cell disease, has continued to use his platform to raise awareness about genotype testing and the challenges faced by people living with the condition. His comments have reignited conversations about love, marriage decisions and the importance of understanding genetic compatibility before starting a family.

Adekunle Gold’s message was not simply about choosing a partner based on health status but about making informed decisions that can affect future children. Genotype compatibility is a major consideration in many Nigerian families because certain combinations can increase the possibility of children being born with sickle cell disease.

When two people with sickle cell trait (AS) have children together, there is a possibility that their child may inherit sickle cell disease (SS). This is why many health professionals encourage couples to know their genotype before marriage and seek proper counselling before making decisions about having children.

The singer’s comments also highlight the personal reality of living with sickle cell disease. Beyond medical challenges, many people with the condition face social stigma, emotional struggles and financial pressure caused by frequent healthcare needs.

However, discussions around genotype compatibility can sometimes become sensitive because they involve balancing medical advice with personal choices, love and individual circumstances. Some couples with incompatible genotypes explore medical options and counselling, while others decide to avoid the risk entirely.

Adekunle Gold has used his personal experience to encourage awareness rather than shame. His advocacy through sickle cell awareness initiatives has focused on education, support and encouraging people to understand the condition better.

The conversation also raises an important question about how society treats people living with sickle cell disease. Having the condition does not mean someone cannot achieve success, build relationships or contribute meaningfully to society. Many people living with sickle cell disease lead fulfilling lives when they have proper medical care, support and access to treatment.

At the same time, medical experts continue to emphasise the importance of informed choices. Understanding genotype before marriage allows couples to discuss possible risks, explore available options and prepare responsibly for the future.

Adekunle Gold’s statement has therefore reopened a wider conversation: should love alone determine marriage decisions, or should couples also consider the possible health implications for future children?

For many Nigerians, the answer lies in finding a balance — respecting personal choices while ensuring that couples have accurate information before making life-changing decisions.